Jim Taylor's Soft Edges

Lectionary Analysis.......................Soft Edges Commentary.........................Reflections on Life and Faith

Jim Taylor has written several best-selling books, including Sin: A New Understanding of Virtue and Vice. His essays are an insightful look at life from a modern, progressive spiritual perspective.

 Jim has more than 40 years experience writing and editing, in broadcasting, magazines, newspapers, and books. He was for 13 years the managing editor of a 330,000 circulation magazine; he co-founded a publishing house; he has written 13 books and has lost count of the number of magazine articles. Although theoretically retired, he continues to edit two or three books a year, dispenses advice liberally, and teaches his Eight-Step Editing workshops across Canada.

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2007

bullet Password for Prayer - August 1, 2007
We even have passwords for prayer. Devout people assure me that any prayer uttered in the name of Jesus Christ will always be answered. God has promised that, they insist. But no other password will do. I don't believe that any more. I'm not sure I ever did.
bullet Two-Wheeled Stability - July 25, 2007
In the journal Proceedings of the Royal Society, a conclusive mathematical account of bike riding is described in a dense 28-page paper by Professor Andy Ruina of Cornell University, Jim Papadopoulos of Green Bay, Wisconsin, Jaap Meijaard of Nottingham University, and Prof Arend Schwab of Delft University of Technology, the Netherlands
bulletAnother Meeting - July 18, 2007
For efficiency in decision making, you want the smallest feasible group. For building a community vision, you need the biggest, involving a maximum number of people.
bulletWhat We're Listening for - July 11, 2007
Prayer is supposed to be a conversation too, I'm told. Maybe we don't listen hard enough for what God isn't saying, though
bullet Embodied Words - July 4, 2007
It's one reason I believe in what Christianity calls the Incarnation. God ceased being an abstract idea, a distant idea in the sky, and became a real human being.
bulletTen Commandments for Drivers - June 23, 2007
The Vatican's fifth commandment states: Cars shall not be an expression of power and domination... Which is exactly how many people use their cars.
bullet True Believers - June 20, 2007
Beliefs are, at their root, an emotional response to life experience. Beliefs assure us that we play a meaningful role in the universe – even if the universe itself is meaningless.
bullet Fifty Years Ahead - June 13, 2007
 Unless religious institutions – be they Christian, Muslim, or Hindu – can offer something distinctly different from all the other choices available, they will inevitably suffer attrition.
bulletSeeking Epiphanies - June 6, 2007
the satisfaction of pleasing those who are already on side pales compared to that moment of epiphany when a reader or hearer gains a new insight.
bulletSpeaking of Nothing - May 30, 2007
According to the Ten Commandments, it seems, the only way to think of the divine is to think of nothing. Maybe zero isn't so insignificant after all.
bullet Who You Talk To - May 23, 2007
The truth often depends on who you talk to. You'll get quite a different story from Jews in Jerusalem, than from Palestinians in Gaza.
bullet Contradictions - May 16, 2007
Biblical literalists tie their intestines in a knot trying to rationalize these apparent contradictions into a single consistent system of beliefs. They have trouble accepting that different contexts may have called for different answers.
bullet A Cure for Apathy - May 9, 2007
Churches are dying wherever they concentrate on keeping their coffins comfortably well-upholstered.
bullet Reaching for Infinity - May 2, 2007
Perhaps I'm in a minority. But I see nothing to prevent us finite creatures from reaching for infinity.
bullet Old Habits and Bread - April 25, 2007
Are churches like museums, the place we store things we no longer use but find interesting to visit on occasion?
bullet 15 Minutes Late - April 18, 2007
One congregation I know starts every service with 15 minutes of "Praise" choruses to attract younger worshippers. My friends make sure they arrive 15 minutes late.
bulletReassurance - April 11, 2007
Romantic paintings that show Jesus serenely surveying the countryside from an elevated viewpoint, while women picnic near his feet, distort reality.
bulletProperty - April 4, 2007
Every morning, a male flicker hooks himself onto the side of my house and pounds out his mating call. He hammers his beak against my cedar siding, my eavestroughs, even my chimney top.
bulletDumbing Down God - March 28, 2007
God—whatever that word means—is too big even for adult minds to grasp with certainty, too important to be dumbed down.
bulletReality is Not the Final Word - March 21, 2007
Abolition of slavery demanded 17 centuries. But it did happen. If a vision is powerful enough, if enough people share the vision, the vision can create a new reality
bulletBald Spots - March 14, 2007
He picked one girl up, and sat her on his shoulder. "What do you see"? he asked her. "Bald spots", Sonja replied delightedly. Laughter rippled through the congregation.
bullet Between Sleeping and Waking - March 7, 2007
According to legend, Siddhartha Gautama, the prince who became the Buddha, spent six years seeking enlightenment.
bullet Ogopogo, Santa, and Jesus - Thoughts on Harmless Deceptions - February 28, 2007
Only when stories get stamped with the imprimatur of Holy Writ do we start teaching children to take legends literally.
bullet Excellence in Living - February 21, 2007
Do you ever get the feeling that if what you're doing doesn't qualify for some kind of an award, it's not worth trying?
bullet Valentine's Day Dreams - February 14, 2007
Valentine's Day ain't what it used to be. Once upon a time, if I dreamed about being naked, I was probably having an erotic dream. Not any more.
bullet Smiling Communities - February 7, 2007
Left to myself, I could probably get all too frustrated with the shortcomings of any congregation. Or, for that matter, any social organization
bullet Unthinking Faith - January 31, 2007
For some people, the attraction of a political party, a labor union, or a religious faith is that they can let someone else do their thinking for them.
bullet Cause and Effect - January 24, 2007
I wonder if some of us ever really get beyond a two-year-old level of reasoning, when we don't want to.
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Intoxicating Religion - January 17, 2007
Language without poetry is dead. So is religion without imagination.

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Flawed Analogies - January 10, 2007
Dark is passive; light is active. You cannot turn on a dark that will drive away the light. You can only turn off a light, and leave darkness in its absence.

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Experiencing the Holy - January 3, 2007
Early in the last century, German theologian Rudolf Otto coined the word numinous for spiritual experience. I prefer the term awe.

2006

bulletWarmed Hearts - December 27, 2006
My heart feels strangely warmed that two elderly -- and by the standards of their time, socially useless -- people could perform a role that warmed parents' hearts
bullet Winter Solstice - December 20, 2006
At dawn on the winter solstice, when the sun is at its lowest in the winter sky, the rising sun penetrates right to the end of that tunnel, to illuminate the floor of a cross-shaped chamber
bullet Between the Extremes - December 13, 2006
Perhaps everything consists of polarities. The truth lies somewhere on the continuum between two extremes – but it's only those contradictory extremes that make the continuum evident to us.
bullet Christmas - the Core of the Story - December 6, 2006
Most traditional theology limits God to a single Incarnation, in the person of the infant Jesus, the Messiah (Hebrew) or the Christ (Greek). But I'm not willing to limit God.
bulletSelf-Answering Questions - November 29, 2006
if God is good, and God created everything, how can there be evil in the world? Did a good God create evil? The academic name for this question, by the way, is "theodicy."
bullet Jesus in the Penthouse - November 22, 2006
There's a truth in the evangelical mantra – we do need to be born again. Not just once, though, but constantly. To prevent us from assuming that a privileged position is a right.
bullet What Kind of God - November 15, 2006
I want to know, what kind of God deliberately inflicts pain and suffering? I'll tell you -- the kind of God I thought I had outgrown. The kind of God who plays favourites
bulletStupid Wars - November 8, 2006
This Remembrance Day weekend, hundreds of editorials and thousands of sermons will praise those who paid the ultimate sacrifice. They gave their lives for a cause.
bulletOut of Chaos - November 1, 2006
Out of chaos came order – Perhaps that was our need. And we told the story of Genesis to validate our own compulsion to organize.
bullet On Being Vulnerable - October 25, 2006
Writing a book is not a shortcut to glory. It's more like an exercise in vulnerability.
bullet This is Why We Bother - October 18, 2006
If you don't speak up for others when you're not personally threatened, you can't expect others to speak up for you when you are.
bullet Permanent Punishment - Oct.11, 2006
Unfortunately, the concept of getting rid of the bad guys is entrenched in most of our religious beliefs. The good will eventually go to heaven; the bad will go to hell
bulletWine Tasting - October 4, 2006
a woman described the many people who had intervened helpfully in her life… "But," she said, "those were all people. I don't see how God was involved at all."
bullet Saints and Sinners - September 27, 2006
To think of myself as a sinner because I miss the mark is to penalize me for making the effort to hit the mark. And not even the saints hit the mark all the time.
bulletMore Than a Birdbrain - September 20, 2006
I had a conversation with a crow earlier this year. A crow named Betty is the only non-human creature known to have invented a tool.  
bullet Universal Unity - September 13, 2006
What matters is not the means of achieving that altered state of consciousness, but the awareness – and the awe – of discovering universal unity.
bulletThe End of the World - September 6, 2006
The end of the world will come September 3, next year. I figured it out, myself.
bullet Recycling Myself - August 30, 2006
Why should we expect a single state of mind, a single snapshot of experience, to last indefinitely? Does a pendulum stop at the end of its swing?
bulletLearning New Skills - August 23, 2006
Granddaughter Katherine is visiting us this week. (Daughter Sharon came along as parental servant.)
bullet Personality Disorders - August 16, 2006
Reduce any of the famous Seven Deadly Sins a little, take them down from an extreme, and they often become virtues.
bullet Living Dangerously - August 9, 2006
Perhaps there's no such thing in human life as pure altruism. And perhaps that's okay. The Dalai Lama sometimes speaks of pure altruism as the highest virtue
bulletThe Holiest Place - August 2, 2006
Name the world's holiest place. Most Christians and all Jews would probably say Jerusalem. Muslims also consider Jerusalem a sacred site, surpassed only by Mecca and Medina. But a good case can be made for Axum Ethiopia.
bulletTravel Rules - July 26, 2006
Jim's Rules of International Travel
bulletThe March of Saints - July 19, 2006
I came back from Ireland with a new appreciation for saints. I grew up with rigidly protestant presumptions about saints.
Lesser Wrongs - July 12, 2005
If someone died or were left permanently disabled because I took the time to obey every jot and tittle of the highway regulations on my way to the hospital, I would feel guilty for the rest of my life.
bullet Moving On, Growing Up - July 5, 2006
So why should we assume that what we were told about God, way back in Sunday school, was the ultimate truth? It was a beginning, a launching pad, a stepping stone. To move ahead means leaving that stepping stone behind.
bulletJust a Good Kid - June 28, 2006
Our daily newspaper carried a story recently about a 21-year-old man who had been under house arrest for theft and fraud. "He's a good kid," said the suspect's father.
bulletThin Places - June 21, 2006
And so I am currently in Ireland, looking for what Celtic Christians called “thin places” - places where the veil that hides God from us (or us from God) becomes less opaque.
bulletTime To Go - June 14, 2006
I found myself clinging to those people, those colleagues, those friends, as if I never wanted to let them go. But it was time. For them, and for me
bulletOn Eagle's wings - June 7, 2006
His followers are a mixed bag. At their best, they still take the side of the victim. But far too many still bow their heads toward the imperial eagle.
bulletGod's Companionable Silence - May 31, 2006
I've written in previous columns about my own prayer life, or lack of it, but from some responses I've received, I suspect that many today find God conspicuous by his or her absence.
bulletReal-life Survivors - May 24, 2006
I gave up watching the TV series Survivor several years ago. They call it a “reality” show. It's anything but reality. If you want a reality show about survivors, talk to senior citizens
bullet Endless Subdivisions - May 17, 2006
Growth has come to our little rural community. Other people want what I have had for the last 12 years. And the only way they can get it is to bulldoze roads, cut down trees, level the hills, and build five-bedroom stucco mansions with three-car garages
bullet The Invisible Audience - May 10, 2006
I usually assumed that religious people had to have an active prayer life. I have tried to have one, but always failed. I've tried taking time out during the day; I get preoccupied with deadlines.
bulletFixed Focus - May 3, 2006
 Why, then, would we cling to a belief that God must be unchanging? I prefer to find terms that mean more to me, at my stage of life. A friend referred to the unfurling of the seasons as an “endless miracle.” That concept appeals to me much more than “unchanging.”
bullet Centre of the Universe - April 26, 2006
Since Galileo, we know intellectually that the universe doesn't revolve around our planet, let alone around us as individuals. But emotionally, we still see ourselves in the middle.
bullet Bright Yellow flowers - April 19, 2006
But if it comes to one extreme or another, I can't help feeling that the planet as a whole might be better off with no humans than with nothing but humans. Earth Day is April 22. Think about it.
bullet Crosses and Resurrections - April 12, 2006
The once-and-for-all-time Resurrection that Christians celebrate on Easter Morning doesn't mean much to me. Nothing I do can affect it – I am essentially irrelevant.
bullet Redemptive Violence - April 5, 2006
The truth of the story doesn’t depend who did what, but that in the end love is stronger than hate, that life is stronger than death, and that the power of evil can never conquer the potential for good.
bulletSun Worship - March 29, 2006
But most religions soon moved beyond sun worship, and visualized a superior deity whom even the sun obeyed. In the magnificent poem that opens the biblical book of Genesis, Jewish theologians imagined a divinity who created not just the sun but the whole universe
bullet Meditation on Spring - March 22, 2006
From the womb of nothingness, light and warmth emerged.  And in the light and the warmth were day and night,  and in light and warmth lay the possibility of life.  
And the possibility was pleased.
bulletGiving Up Griping - March 15, 2006
All progress ground to a halt as meetings disintegrated into whining sessions. “'I'm very sorry,' I was forced to apologize on several occasions.' I gave up grumbling, griping, and whining of any kind for Lent. I'd love to join you in this conversation, but I'm afraid it's against my religion."
bulletStupidity Tests - March 8, 2006
And when the religious tenets we have taken for granted for so long come under fire, we tend to cling to them more and more obstinately. We attack anyone who challenges us to re-think doctrines we have long taken for granted
bulletDoing Without - March 1, 2006
Perhaps you can infer that I'm skeptical about traditional Lenten practices? You see, I do not believe that God wants us to be miserable. I do not believe that God wants us to suffer for our own good. I do not believe that God punishes us by inflicting disease and death upon us
bullet Babies and Bathwater - February 22, 2006
A friend worries that in the current religious ferment we may be “throwing the baby out with the bathwater.” In fact, we're keeping a lot more than we're challenging. We just find it harder to name the important things we're keeping.
bulletModel Behaviour - February 15, 2006
If there is such a thing as original sin, it wasn't eating an apple. The sin was our decision to sacrifice God's world and our own better instincts to the insatiable demands of our own creations.
bullet Battling Complacency - February 8, 2006
I would love to settle back into the hot tub of complacency, to leave the battles for justice, for equality, for sustainable environments and communities, to younger people. But...
bullet Waves and Beaches - February 1, 2006
Some experiences that you thought would destroy you, don't. Other situations catch you by surprise. They whack you between the shoulder blades when you thought you were in calm water
bulletCan The Son of God Have Grandparents? - January 25, 2006
Her son and daughter-in-law live about four hours away. She hardly ever sees her grandchildren; she feels unwelcome in her daughter-in-law's home.
bullet Bargaining Points - January 18, 2006
A few months ago, Joan and I made a decision. We picked about 20 causes and charities. I wrote those organizations a letter. I promised that we would send them at least one contribution a year. In return, we asked them to quit sending us mail
bulletOut of Sync with Society - January 11, 2006
But why, I then start to wonder, should I presume that a person who's friendly enough to start chatting with a stranger must have something wrong with him?
bullet Both Sides Now - January 4, 2006
These discoveries incline me to amend Newton's Third Law of Motion to say, Every action has at least two related but opposing reactions.”

2005

bullet Passing the Baton - December 28, 2005
bullet The Hitchhiker's Nativity - December 14, 2005
bullet Open to the Unexpected - December 7, 2005
bulletSex Appeal - November 30, 2005
bullet Underestimating Animals - November 23, 2005
bullet The Power of the Non-Vote -November 16, 2005
bulletNo One Wins a War - November 9, 2005
bullet Paving Paradise - November 2, 2005
bullet When We Need Handles - October 26, 2005
bullet For the Journey - October 19, 2005
bulletNot So Funny - October 12, 2005
bullet Carbon Copies - October 5, 2005
bullet Discerning Meaning - September 28, 2005
bullet Little Blue Flowers of Kindness - September 21, 2005
bulletWhat Makes it Christian? - September 14, 2005
bullet Boiled Frogs - September 7, 2005
bullet Forbidding Fruit - August 31, 2005
bullet Different Way of Worship - August 24, 2005
bullet Someone Else's Life - August 17, 2005
bullet Learning the Moves  - August 10, 2005
bullet Sacrificial Mothers - August 3, 2005
bullet Mental Prisons - July 27, 2005
bulletIn Our Element - July 20, 2005
bullet Horoscopes and their Ilk - July 13, 2005
bullet Vertical Transit - July 6, 2005
bulletWeeding Life's Garden - June 29, 2005
bullet Life Without Labels - June 22, 2005
bulletOn Time - June 15, 2005
bullet Slow and Steady - June 8, 2005
bullet Conversations with God - June 1, 2005
bulletA Handle on Life - May 25, 2005
bulletThose Dear Damn Deer - May 18, 2005
bullet Revealing Celebrations - May 11, 2005
bulletThe Decline and Fall of May Day - May 4, 2005
bulletGod's Doorknobs - April 27, 2005
bullet Growing Pains - April 20, 2005
Heavenly Grandparent - April 13, 2005
bulletContinuing Value - April 6, 2005
bullet Darkest Before the Dawn - March 30, 2005
bulletthe Absence of God - March 23, 2005
bullet Everyone Loves a Parade - March 16, 2005
bullet Language Differences - February 16, 2005
bullet Herald of New Life - February 9, 2005
bullet Burdened by Tradition - February 2, 2005
bulletWhy Not? - January 26, 2005
bullet Foolhardy Actions - January 19, 2005
Shepherds for Lost Logs - January 12, 2005
bullet Learning Curves - January 5, 2005

2004

bulletDragons and Demons - December 29, 2004
bulletSanta at Sea - December 22, 2004
bullet Strong Roots, New Shoots - December 15, 2004
bullet Mumbled Meanings - December 8, 2004

 

bullet Much Ado About Sex - June 30, 2004
bulletHomely Resurrections - May 26, 2004
bulletCultural Diversity - May 19, 2004
bulletYouthful Rebellion - May 12, 2004
bulletTea on Tap - May 5, 2004
bulletMonkeying Around - April 28, 2004
bulletReforming and Restoring - April 14, 2004
bulletFeast or Famine - April 7, 2004
bulletTime Travel - March 31, 2004
bulletUnwilling to Share - March 24, 2004
bulletQuirks of Memory - March 17, 2004
bulletSecond Hand Half Truths - March 10, 2004
bulletDiverging Paths - March 3, 2004
bulletBody Language - February 25, 2004
bulletNothing Personal - February 18, 2004
bulletGood Night - February 11, 2004
bulletYou Can't Go Back - February 4, 2004
bulletSlowly Going Mad - January 28, 2004
bulletLack of Passion - January 21, 2004
bulletBest Wishes - January 14, 2004
bullet Final Blessing - January 7,2004

2003

bulletSensitivity - April 2, 2003
bulletMoral Mentoring - April 9, 2003
bulletRoots - April 16, 2003
bulletPicking up the Pieces - April 23, 2003
bulletThe Ultimate Rebellion - April 30, 2003
bulletWhat's a Weed? - May 7, 2003
bulletPeeking into Back Yards - May 14, 2003
bulletActs of God - May 21, 2003
bulletHands-on Helping - May 28, 2003
bulletFailure to Focus - June 4, 2003
bulletProblems with patches - June 11, 2003
bulletLast Chances - June 18, 2003
bulletVarying Viewpoints - June 25, 2003
bulletThe Power We Rely On - July 2, 2003
bulletTentative Pride - July 9, 2003
bulletSeeking the Lost- July 16, 2003
bulletDo Trees have Rights - July 23, 2003
bulletEnd of the Trail - July 30, 2003
bulletA Cup of Cold Water - August 6, 2003
bulletLike a River - August 13, 2003
bulletRisking Forgiveness - August 20, 2003
bulletGathering Places - August 27, 2003
bulletIndiscretions - September 3, 2003
bulletBrambles - September 10, 2003
bulletBe Interested! - September 17, 2003
bulletCreation Stories - September 24, 2003
bulletWorldly Wealth - October 1, 2003
bulletAttitude of Gratitude - October 8, 2003
bulletA Day of Rest - October 15, 2003
bulletBuried Scars - October 22, 2003
bulletPagan Festivals - October 29, 2003
bulletAnd the Women Weep - November 5, 2003
bulletTake My Life - November 12, 2003
bulletSubordinate Themes - November 19,2003
bulletFree Gifts - November 26, 2003
bulletAct of Protest - December 3, 2003
bulletInterpreting the Lights - December 10, 2003
bulletTough Way to Start - December 17, 2003
bulletCPR Santa - December 24, 2003
bulletUnrecognized Beliefs - December 31, 2003